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Quebec City, Canada

Paris

Is taking two children under four out of the country in winter an absurd idea? Probably so. But we did it anyway.

My husband and I are experienced travelers. When our first daughter was born in 2014, we took her along on all our adventures, including San Francisco, New York, and even Ireland. She was a seasoned traveler before the ripe old age of two. When our second daughter was born in February 2017, we knew things would be a bit more challenging, but we were confident we could make it work with the right mix of preparation, bravery, and electronic devices.

In November, we decided to take our girls, aged 3.5 and 8 months, on an adventure to Quebec City, Canada. Coming from Charlotte, North Carolina, we could connect in Toronto and then continue to Quebec. For our youngest daughter’s inaugural trip, we thought this would be a good introduction.

When we told our family and friends about our proposed adventure, we were faced with so many questions and concerns: But it’s so COLD in Canada this time of year! You’ll have to pack everything and the kitchen sink! What will you do if it’s too cold to go outside?

Quebec is a very family friendly city and I can’t say enough how welcoming and helpful everyone was, from our Chateau Frontenac hotel and room staff who tucked the girls’ stuffed animals into bed in the morning while we were out, to four-star restaurants who welcomed the littlest guests with kids’ menus, high chairs, and smiles.

It was definitely a trip to remember!

New Orleans: I Had Bread Pudding for Dinner and I’m Not Even Sorry

“So where to next?”

That’s a common question in the Smith house, especially as the days and weeks pass from the last time we unpacked our suitcases.

With Labor Day and a perfectly good three-day travel weekend coming up, that sounded like the best time for our next adventure. We looked at several cities for a quick getaway, but we knew we wanted to go somewhere we could drive to in a day, since we were taking our furry children with us. After perusing the map, we settled on New Orleans, because it’s very dog-friendly and also because we’ve both been there before. Having already been to New Orleans separately, we figured we’d have to worry less about figuring out the lay of the land so we could spend more time eating, which, let’s be honest, is what it’s all about.

We headed out for the Big Easy Friday afternoon and got in around midnight. Our hotel was located between the French Quarter and the Business District, so we were able to walk to nearly everything while still being far enough away from the crazy that is Bourbon Street. There was even a cute little outside atrium about a block from our hotel where the dogs could do their business. Frank thought this was fantastic. Honestly, Frank thought everything about New Orleans was fantastic. I’m pretty sure they’re going to give him a key to the city at some point.

Our first day, we woke up early so we could head down to Jackson Square with the pups. We wanted to go before the heat of the day so they wouldn’t get too tuckered out, and we figured there would be fewer people around. Frank is really good when he’s in public and loves the attention, but our poor little Gracie has a bit of social anxiety so we didn’t want her to stress out too much. They did great on the ride down and really loved the hotel. Frank is okay with anywhere that puts lots of pillows on the bed, and Gracie liked looking out our hotel window at the city below. She’s our little guard dog.

Our original plan was to stop by Café Du Monde for the world-famous beignets and coffee, but when we got to Jackson Square, the line to get in went down Decatur Street. Since Allen and I had both been there before, we decided not to wait. For the Smiths, it’s rare that we’ll wait in line to eat anywhere no matter how delicious the food. We walked around Jackson Square and St. Louis Cathedral for a bit before ducking into Pierre Maspero’s restaurant for a bite — a totally awesome culinary decision on our part. Allen ordered a mint julep and I had a Cajun Bloody Mary to start things off. We also ordered crawfish beignets for an appetizer, which pretty much ended up being the best thing I ate on our trip — and that’s saying a lot because all of the food was delicious. If you leave New Orleans hungry, it’s your own darn fault. After we polished off our beignet app, and by “polished off,” I mean “licked the plate,” we each ordered an entree that was original to New Orleans. Allen got a sampler that consisted of gumbo, jambalaya, and étouffée. I opted for the red beans and rice, and it was really tasty and just spicy enough.

With our tummies full and happy, we continued our trek through the French Quarter, checking out the shops and bakeries and just taking it all in. I absolutely adore the architecture in New Orleans, and I love how heavy cast iron fences and rails are somehow made softer by all of the greenery and brightly colored flowers. I also love doors, so I enjoyed seeing all of the different kinds, usually against beautiful brick or boldly painted walls. We walked along the Mississippi River and watched the riverboats docking while listening to various street musicians playing jazz along the banks. I mean they were literally playing jazz with saxophones and whatnot. This is not a metaphor.

Later on in the afternoon, we stopped at a place called Backspace Bar based solely on the sign’s font because we’re both writers and that’s what we do. Another great decision. It was definitely a Becky and Allen kind of place — the entire bar was made of rich wooden tables, and old typewriters and books lined the shelves. So basically it was the library at our house. We were particularly amused by a sign above our table that read “Mr. Frank.” It’s like New Orleans knew he was coming. (See also: King of Mardi Gras.)

Our bartender at Backspace Bar was super sweet, and we asked her to make us some authentic New Orleans spirits. She whipped me up the most delicious Hurricane — the good kind of hurricane — and she made Allen a Sazerac, which is a combination of cognac or rye whiskey, absinthe, and Peychaud’s Bitters. After our late afternoon cocktails, we headed over to Lafayette Square near our hotel. The pups really liked Lafayette Square because it wasn’t as crowded and they could run around in the grassy area without hearing traffic horns and other random noises. I think this was Grace’s favorite spot in the city.

For dinner we decided that we had to have Po-Boys. We stopped at a place called Huck Finn’s, and I had a shrimp version while Allen opted for a fried oyster one. I have to say I don’t think New Orleans has any bad food, because our sandwiches were delicious. After dinner, we walked around the city a bit more and down Bourbon Street before calling it a night. Bourbon Street is crazy. Total crazy.

After all of the walking, eating, and imbibing, I think all four of us passed out the moment our heads hit the pillow. Or pillows in Frank’s case. Big dogs need lots of pillows.

When we woke up the next morning we decided to get out of the French Quarter for the day and head over to the Garden District. Armed with lots of water, our travel doggie cup, and plenty of puppy poop bags, we hopped in the car and headed that way. I must digress for a minute to love on doggie travel cups. They’re so convenient and pretty much the greatest invention ever. They’re perfect for the dog on the go who needs to say hydrated. Frank and Grace adore their cup. Now back to my story.

The Garden District is definitely a site to see. With all of the historic homes and tree-lined streets, it’s such a beautiful walk. Our first stop was Lafayette Cemetery No. 1, one of New Orleans’ oldest above-ground cemeteries. I’m so intrigued by New Orleans cemeteries and the history — it’s almost like time stands still when you walk through them. Even on the warmest, sunniest day, it gives you chills. I was really taken by all of the flowers in front of the old graves — something about the contrast between life and death. Or maybe it was just the pops of color against the otherwise bleak gray stones. Either way, it prompted me to keep my shutter clicking.

After the cemetery, we stopped by a little Cajun cafe for some lunch. I had the vegetarian jambalaya and Allen had red beans and rice. Frank and Grace had some ice water and carrots from my jambalaya. Frank also tried to drink some of my coffee. Such a city dog. He sat on my lap and Grace perched under my chair so they could do some people-watching and also protect our table from the people moving out of their apartment above us. We enjoyed our Garden District afternoon and then headed back to our part of town.

For dinner, we chose Chartres House so we could sit out on the cast-iron patio and do a little people-watching as the sun set. I had bread pudding for dinner and I’m not even sorry. Was it the best decision I made this trip? Quite possibly. After dinner, it was dark so we walked around the city at night, enjoying the bright lights, friendly people, and the faint sound of jazz drifting through the air.

We headed back to the hotel happy, content, and exhausted. The next day we headed home, but the trip was definitely amazing and a much-needed break. And I’m totally still dreaming about those crawfish beignets.

Smith European Adventure: Germany

Paris

We woke up at 5:00 a.m. Paris time.  Having only been in Europe for three days, we were still fighting the recoil of our overstretched internal sleep clocks, and the 4:45 sunrises weren’t helping much.  Whether it was from the sheer anticipation of the next leg of our journey or the copious amounts of opaque French coffee we had collectively drank over the previous 72 hours, we were wide awake and ready to drag our heavy, weathered suitcases and matching eyelids onto the train that would take us across the border to the land of lebkuchen.  We were Germany-bound.

It is a short four-hour train ride from Paris to Frankfurt via the ICE high-speed rail.  The scenery alone is worth the trip, but the convenience of rail travel really validates the proverbial ticket.  We arrived at our platform twenty minutes before departure and boarded the train without once having to remove our shoes, place electronic devices in their own bin, or be microwaved like Hot Pockets in a body scanner.  Assisted by the multinational crew who, together, knew just enough of several languages to be dangerous, we found our spacious seats and settled in for a fresh breakfast feast of cheese, baguettes, and pain au chocolat, that Becky had previously stuffed into her purse and smuggled aboard.  We gawked at the countryside and watched as the slate grey chateaus slid by us, eventually replaced with the vibrant orange tile roofs and hilly farms of southern Germany.

A little before noon, we arrived at Frankfurt’s palatial central train station.  Handling an average of over 600 trains per day, it is the busiest train station in Germany, which meant there was plenty to occupy us during the hour connection we had.  We grabbed two cups of fresh coffee and huddled around a counter to watch as the choppy waves of commuters, panhandlers and vacationers rolled in and out.  Before long, our connecting train had arrived and we were ready to make the final 75-mile leg down to Würzburg.

Würzburg is a sleepy city in the heart of Franconia, Germany’s wine country.  With Bronze Age roots, it was officially founded in 704 and has been the site of many struggles for power over the past 1,300 years.  It is safe, walkable and full of friendly locals who all represent the city’s rich history.  I was fortunate enough to live and study here back in 2004, so I was excited to share the experience with Becky, however abbreviated it might be.  There is so much to see and do in Würzburg, and we only had 36 hours.  Despite both showing signs of impending head colds, we hit the cobblestone running and didn’t look back.

We arrived at the Würzburger Hof Hotel in the early afternoon to learn that our reservation had been selected for an upgrade to a fancy suite with a private balcony, view of the city from every window and multiple paintings of Audrey Hepburn.  The hotel had even placed individually wrapped Milka cookies around the room for us to discover.  Were Becky and I not already married, I’m confident she would have thought this was all a clever set up for a proposal.  Without dwelling on our fancy dwelling, we unloaded our bags and headed out on the town.

We started with a quick tour of the city’s historic downtown area.  The entire city was annihilated by the British during a 1945 bombing campaign that occurred only weeks before the effective end of World War II in Europe.  Over the past 67 years, it has slowly been restored to it’s pre-war condition.  After an outdoor lunch consisting of homemade käsespätzle and beers from the 370-year-old local brewery, Würzburger Hofbräu, we went on a tour of the Residenz, a Baroque palace that features the world’s largest ceiling fresco.  After that, we grabbed a few bottles of water to prepare for our evening adventure to climb the steps of the Stationsweg to the pilgrimage chapel that sits atop a mountain on the banks of the Main, followed by dinner at the nearby Nikolaushof, a winegarten with an unmatched view of the entire city.  As is often the case with restaurants at the tops of mountains, however, the hours of business listed on this restaurant’s website were what some hungry mountaineers might consider inadequately detailed.  We reached the locked gates of the restaurant to learn that we had visited on the one day of the week that they were closed.

We wandered back into town and slid into the first restaurant we could find — the Uni Cafe, a happening college place so hip that every table was reserved for folks with many more accent marks in their names than we mere Smiths could offer.  The management was kind enough to offer us a modest corner table in their upstairs dining room with the other riff-raff that had wandered in after having not paid enough attention to the hours on the Nikolaushof’s website — but only for 45 minutes, as they were expecting a rather large party of aspiring minstrels from the local music academy.  Our empty stomachs told us to go for it.  So, for 45 minutes, we sat at our table, which happened to feature the world’s largest wall fresco containing the likenesses of both Einstein and Woody Allen.  We dined on goulash and applesauce-filled crepes until the manager approached us to casually remind us that our time was up by taking away our plates and any remaining utensils.  At that point, we thought it best to retire for the evening.

The next day, we got a fresh start headed to the town square to meet up with friends.  Our friend Amy and her mom had traveled to Würzburg for the day with Amy’s grandfather, who was nice enough to treat us all to a lunch consisting of the best of the wurst.  Becky had her first currywurst and loved it.  I had a quartet of Nürnberger bratwurst in pickled vegetable soup called a Blaue Zipfel.  I may or may not have ordered it because of the name and because I saw that it contained vinegar.

After lunch, Becky and I set out on another hike.  This time we were headed up to the Marienberg Fortress, a castle that sits on the mountains overlooking Würzburg.  The paths up the mountain lead visitors through serene gardens, medieval tunnels, and hillside vineyards.  The castle features a small cafe and gift shop, most likely not part of the original blueprints.  The cafe has an outdoor dining area that gave us a great view of the outlying areas of the city and the many grape vines that cover nearly every hill.

We ended our afternoon trek with a stroll through the palace gardens at the Residenz and made a quick visit to the Kupsch grocery store where I used to purchase supplies for the infamous miniature banana sandwiches that had sustained me during my time living in Würzburg.  Our last evening in town, we walked back down to the city square for dinner at a cafe outside the historic city hall.  We enjoyed more wursts with fresh bread, sauerkraut and Franconian Silvaner wine.  On our walk back to the hotel, Becky treated me to a few scoops of Waldmeister gelato.  After surveying the assorted rainbow of flavors behind the glass, Becky, in perhaps an unconventional move fueled by her recent introduction to Nutella in Paris, came up a chocolate-hazlenut hybrid.  The man behind the counter was more than happy to oblige.

We awoke the next morning before dawn.  We had a six o’clock train and we still needed to check out of the hotel.  We quickly gathered our belongings and any remaining Milka cookies and headed downstairs.  The night clerk who checked us out bore a striking resemblance to a young Charles Nelson Reilly and showered us with more candy before sending us on our way.

The final stop on our Franco-German holiday was Berlin — a quick 5-hour trip on the ICE train that included a jaunt through a massive wind farm.  We pulled into Berlin’s busy central train station around 11 o’clock.  Instead of taking a cab to our hotel, we had decided to utilize Berlin’s extensive network of public transportation.  There are no turnstiles or retractable doors in Berlin’s metro stations.  You simply buy a ticket and hop on.  Everything runs on the honor system.  Everything, that is, except for the ticket kiosks themselves, which only accept two types of payment:  coins and every credit card except for the ones we carried.

Becky watched our luggage while I set out to get some change.  My mini crusade around the station turned up nothing.  None of the stores were willing to break a five, likely hoarding all of their coinage for projected future metro ticket purchases of their own.  Eventually a security guard was willing to point me in the direction of the parking garage, where I found an old change machine wedged in a stairwell between a parking pass validator and two cigarette machines.  After that it was just a few stops, a couple of transfers, a luggage-dragging caravan across Potsdamer Platz and then a few more stops till we were at our hotel.

Efficiency is widespread in Europe, and our hotel was no exception.  Our room was tucked into the corner of a corner of the building.  It featured a bed and side tables without all those unnecessary legs, free internet that would turn itself like an erratic motion activated sink at an interstate rest stop.  Even the electricity to the room had to be re-activated anytime we left and returned.  Needless to say, we spent a good deal of time outside the hotel exploring the city.

The erratic weather had put a kibosh on any existing plans we had made, so we pooled all three days worth of outings and made a go at it anytime the downpours showed signs of stopping.  We visited Checkpoint Charlie, where Becky had her photo taken with pair of Germans dressed as American soldiers.  From there we traced the path of the former Berlin Wall, which is now commemorated in a narrow cobblestone strip that cuts through the city where the wall once divided the east from the west.  There is also a section of the wall still standing in front of the site of the former Gestapo headquarters.  Not far from there, we found an old 1970s photo booth that was still in working condition.  We had to duck in to check it out.  Five minutes later, we had a strip of four black and white snapshots complete with the moist odor of their recent stop bath.

We visited the innovative glass dome that sits atop the Reichstag building and provides a 360-degree panoramic view of the entire city.  We passed through the massive Brandenburg gate and explored the feeling of somber alienation between the 2,711 concrete pillars of the Holocaust Memorial.  We admired the bricolage of artifacts as we walked across Museum Island to Alexanderplatz, home of the iconic Fernsehturm.  We even took a stroll across the patterned stone at Gendarmenmarkt, which is likely most famous for being the plaza that Franka Potente runs across in Run Lola Run.  I’m told there are also a few cathedrals and a concert house around there as well.

Our culinary adventures continued in Berlin as well.  For three days, we wursted and strudeled across the bear city, stopping not once but twice at a place called Maximilian’s, a Bavarian themed restaurant that might be the German analog to a Cracker Barrel.  Near our hotel, we learned all about the ins and outs of currywurst at the Deutsches Currywurst Museum.  That’s right; there is an entire museum devoted to currywurst.  I am hoping to hear news of a wing showcasing the döner opening in the near future.  We shared unfiltered wheat beers and radlers.  We even had a few of the obligatory Berliner Weiße, a north German sour beer that has been flavored with raspberry or woodruff and served with the world’s least useful straw.

By Friday night, our 8-day European holiday had come to an end.  We had filled our stomachs and camera rolls with memories, and we were grateful for every last drop and bite of the experiences we had shared.  We turned out the lights, our feet aching for familiar sidewalks; our minds clouded with the remnants of multiple broken languages, we shut our eyes and dreamt of home.

Smith European Adventure: Paris

Paris

I love to travel. I grew up as an airline brat with both of my parents working for USAirways, and I took my first plane ride before I could even sit up by myself. By the time I reached the precocious age of six, I was already turning away souvenir clip-on wings from pilots, saying, “No, thank you. I have too many already,” much to the chagrin of my mother.

Fast forward more than ten countries, every continental U.S. state, hundreds of plastic-cup tomato juices (most often with ice), and at least two dozen bags of those little pretzel peanut things, and I still have sand in my Chucks. I was fortunate enough to a marry a swell guy who is also in love with the world.

My husband Allen not only loves to travel, but he is also fluent in German having studied abroad in Würzburg while he was in college, circa 2004. I took my first trip to Paris in February 2005, so for this year’s big trip, we decided to visit Germany and France. Allen took to planning the German portion of our adventure since he lived there, and I set to work on the France leg, since that was my area of expertise. See also: Fromage.

Our trip started last Thursday, as we flew from Nashville to Charlotte to Paris. We prepped for the Charlotte to Paris portion by fueling up on Pinkberry at Charlotte-Douglas International Airport, a decision that would later be paramount when our stewardess ran out of chicken and presented us with the world’s smallest portion of pasta for our in-flight dinner. I’ve never been one to sleep on a flight, but I came prepared for this trip with a 1970s disco-style sleeping mask I purchased the week before at my local Michaels, hours of Mumford on my iPod, and two Advil PMs.

I still didn’t sleep, but I’m pretty sure I looked very fashionable and I now know every word to every Mumford song ever.

When we finally arrived in Paris at 7:00 a.m. local time, we were giddy with excitement. Even our hour-long taxi ride to the hotel in the morning rush didn’t dampen our spirits. We were delirious from no sleep and the promise of pain au chocolat and other pastries we weren’t even sure existed except in our dreams.

After arriving at the amazing Hotel Opera Deauville near Gare St. Lazare (the same hotel I stayed at eight years earlier), we had our first breakfast in the adorable little brick basement cafe in our hotel. Complete with the aforementioned pain au chocolate, cold cuts, hard boiled eggs, and delicious coffee, we refueled before heading out for some sight-seeing. We visited Notre Dame, the Jardin des Tuileries, and of course the Louvre. We walked along the Seine and just took it all in. Allen was so excited to be in Paris, and I was really enjoying acting as our tour guide. My French was a bit rusty, but it came back to me. It’s like riding a bicyclette.

For dinner, we ate the popular French sandwich, the croque Madame, which is basically a grilled ham and cheese sandwich with an egg on top. We will literally eat anything if you put an egg on it.

The next day, we woke up super early, grabbed some Nutella crepes, and headed out to the Eiffel Tower. It should be noted that Nutella is everywhere here. I think it’s the official condiment of France. But I digress.

It’s been on my bucket list to have a picnic lunch on the grass in front of said Tower, so we stopped by the grocer and picked up a freshly baked baguette, two types of French cheese (one that had green fur on it), and two tiny bottles of wine (more on this later). We took the metro and as soon as we stepped onto the platform, we saw it. It’s kind of a big deal and even though I’d seen it before, it still amazes me.

We stood in line for a few minutes before we realized we were not allowed to take glass bottles up to the top, which was awkward since we had brought our picnic lunch with us. We were not about to throw out two perfectly good bottles of wine, so I did what anyone in my situation would do. I hid them under a shrub.

We made it though the line in about 45 minutes and bought our tickets to the top. Since we’re both in good shape, we decided to walk. Let me just say there are a heck of a lot of steps and my fanny is still burning. The climb was worth it, because the view is absolutely amazing. You can see all of Paris, and I’m also pretty sure I saw our house in Nashville. Someone really needs to cut the grass.

We decided to take the elevator down because we were starting to get hungry. And we were also curious as to how our wine-in-brush was holding up. Much to our satisfaction, it was exactly where I left it — untouched and ready for consumption. Fantastique!

I have to say, when I was sitting in the grass in front of the Eiffel Tower with Allen, snacking on cheese and sipping wine, I thought, it doesn’t get much better than this unless cake is involved. We did bring some chocolate raspberry cookies, which were quite popular with the gypsy set. Some woman came by and insisted that we give her one of the cookies. It’s all fun and games until someone tries to steal your cookies.

In the afternoon, we headed over to the Arc de Triomphe and the Champs-Élysées. Allen was a real wet blanket and insisted that I stop running across traffic. He said I had to wait for the green man to show up. I told him he really needs to live a little.

After a full day of walking and touring, we were once again famished. If you know us, you know we’re always famished, so why would the Europe Smiths be any different?

We decided to get some pasta and wine at a restaurant near our hotel. I had a four-cheese pasta and Allen tried foie gras for the first time. We also had wine, which if Nutella is the official condiment of France, wine is the official beverage. For dessert, we had a delicious creamy-peanut-brittley-caramel thing that was dee-lish. After dinner, we just walked around Paris. It’s a beautiful city and seeing it lit up at night was breath-taking. We concluded the evening at a local pub where we grabbed a couple 1664 beers, which Allen has dubbed the PBR of France. We’re hipsters and we love PBR so this worked out swimmingly.

Today, we slept in a little bit and grabbed a bite near St. Lazare. We shared a Parisian salad of cheese, ham, tomatoes, and eggs, and also had a delicious ham and cheese omelet. I just started eating meat again not that long ago, but I have to say that the ham in France is really delicious. It all tastes like the roasted ham usually reserved for a fancy Easter feast.

After lunch, we went to Montmartre. I saw a show at the Moulin Rouge on my first visit, and I remember it being really artistic and bohemian. There were street artists, tons of quaint shops, and a good number of unsavory people who only came out after dark. I’m not saying I miss them, but it sort of added to the overall ambiance and carefree vibe. This time around it was quite different.

It’s still my favorite part of Paris and it’s still artsy, but it has evolved quite a bit in eight years. There are more cafes and small businesses (and even a Starbucks, which was sort of odd), and it seems much safer. It’s definitely more trendy, but it’s still unique and worth seeing if you’ve never been.

After taking some pics in front of the Moulin Rouge, we made the circular trek up to the top of Montmartre where the Sacre Coeur overlooks all of Paris. To get away from the early summer crowd, we ducked into a small coffee shop for a quick café au lait and another pain au chocolate before heading back toward town.

Tonight’s dinner was easily the best thing we’ve eaten on our trip so far. We found this really tiny pizzeria with homemade everything. We had a carafe of wine, a garden salad, and a ham and cheese pizza. It was pretty much the best pizza I’ve ever had in my life. We did a bit more walking around the city after dinner before heading back to the hotel, which brings me to now. Tomorrow we have an early train to Würzburg, Germany, so I’ll say bonne soirée for now!